Work it out

Independent
I do not want parents to feel as i'm a burden them,
any way i feel its kind of holding back for me whenever my mom talks about money and debts.

Will it affect what i want to do?

What i want to do?

Live? how?
I don't think my goal is not just to get into civil services, Its one of the path that i choose which i consider as initial step to my ideas

living is what i prefer, living every time, making myself happy, help others in need.


Bhagavadgita
Sadhguru aka Jaggi Vasudev
Buddha aka Siddartha
Swami Vivekananda
APJ Abdul kalam
Dr. N.Jayaprakash Narayan aka JP

I drew inspiration from these people, I want to integrate all those personalities as everyone is about the good for mankind and humanity in short or long terms.

I want to study, the idea of nation and its relations, these people and their ways of proceedings for humanity. I want to inculcate those values and try my way of the work to enlighten the mankind.
And Live and make people live a happy life. 

Appeal

To everyone,

Dear
Who ever you are, whatever you are
Do not drag anyone to believe your views, let them explore, respect their views, let them be what they are, let them fall may be just a warning is enough but not a cage surrounding them. Make them feel that its okay to fail or fall

To Parents,
You may love your kids so much you don't want them to struggle or go in a wrong way, but all the roads that are not known by you are not wrong, may be they are difficult let children choose and have some faith in them, let them fall its not the end, support them.
A man, an avid Gardener saw a small Butterfly laying few eggs in one of the pots in his garden.
Since that day he looked at the egg with ever growing curiosity and eagerness.
The egg started to move and shake a little.
He was excited to see a new life coming up right in front of his eyes.
He spent hours watching the egg now. The egg started to expand and develop cracks.
A tiny head and antennae started to come out ever so slowly. The man's excitement knew no bounds.
He got his magnifying glasses and sat to watch the life and body of a pupa coming out.
He saw the struggle of the tender pupa and couldn't resist his urge to "HELP".
He went and got a tender forceps to help the egg break, a nip here, a nip there to help the struggling life and the pupa was out. The man was ecstatic!
He waited now each day for the pupa to grow and fly like a beautiful butterfly, but alas that never happened.
The larvae pupa had a oversized head and kept crawling along in the pot for the full 4 weeks and died!
Depressed the man went to his botanist friend and asked the reason. His friend told him the struggle to break out of the egg helps the larvae to send blood to its wings and the head push helps the head to remain small so that the tender wings can support it thru its 4 week life cycle. In his eagerness to help, the man destroyed a beautiful life!
Struggles help all of us, that's why a bit of effort goes a long way to develop our strength to face life's difficulties!
As parents, we sometimes go too far trying to help and protect our kids from life's harsh realities and disappointments.
We don't want our kids to struggle like we did.
Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Dan Kindlon says that over-protected children are more likely to struggle in relationships and with challenges.
We're sending our kids the message that they're not capable of helping themselves.
To quote clinical psychologist, Dr. Wendy 's Moral:
"It is Our Job to prepare Our Children for the Road & Not prepare the Road for Our Children"